Even celebrities get cheated on. From Emily Ratajkowski to Khloé Kardashian, Beyoncé, and Dave Grohl’s wife, Jordyn Blum, the public has watched as these high-profile women have had their relationship struggles play out in plain sight. Yet the conversation always seems to shift towards the women and what they might have done ‘wrong’, as if their partner’s infidelity is somehow a reflection of them. But cheating is never about the person being cheated on—it’s about the cheater.