Rosemary MacCabe

sleep training

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Baby sleep training: ‘He has consistently woken only once each night’

Add “I just don’t believe in waking babies up” to the list of things I should never have…

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I needn’t have worried that my ‘own’ child would make my step children think I wasn’t their ‘real’ mom

When my son was born, I became a new mother – but it wasn’t my first foray into…

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Newsflash to men who say “babysitting” to talk about parenting: there is no start or end to parenting

“You don’t babysit your own kids, you know. You just… parent them.”I’m picking up sandwiches in a local…

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motherhood myths: Rosemary MacCabe's baby at 1
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Rosemary MacCabe: An unfiltered list of all the things I got wrong about motherhood

It turns out that having a baby is a lot like life: you never know how you’ll react…

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Rosemary MacCabe: her baby's first illness
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Rosemary MacCabe: ‘I’m not sure why we don’t bring him to A&E then and there’

Rosemary MacCabe’s baby boy has a usually sunny disposition, which makes it all the more worrying when he…

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Rosemary Mac Cabe: parenting comparisons
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Rosemary MacCabe: ‘I wince as bodies come in contact with hers, but she doesn’t react’

A Dermot Kennedy concert in Indiana throws Rosemary MacCabe into the throes of mothering comparison as a woman…

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Rosemary Mac Cabe and her baby
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‘Being able to breastfeed felt like a compensation for his C-section delivery’

Rosemary’s breastfeeding ‘journey’ starts off well and feels, in a way, like a compensation for having a C-section…

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Rosemary MacCabe: ‘Death is not something I have ever feared. Now I long for immortality’

Rosemary MacCabe never feared death, at least for its own sake. But it’s only since becoming a mother…

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Air travel with baby: Rosemary MacCabe and her baby on a flight
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Rosemary MacCabe: A long-haul flight home to Ireland with a 7-month-old

Rosemary MacCabe has always been a fan of air travel. The brown noise, mini pretzels, hours to read…

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Rosemary Mac Cabe: failure as a parent is a new type of failure
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Failing as a parent is a new kind of failure

Failing as a parent is a new kind of failure. In the first 6 months of a new…

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Rosemary MacCabe and the fourth trimester
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Fourth trimester truths: no swaddling, no sleeping, constipation (mine) and abject terror

'There is something bizarre about cutting a woman open, handing her a baby…and sending her home,' thinks Rosemary…

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Rosemary Mac Cabe and her baby: Her birth plan did not go to plan
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Rosemary Mac Cabe: ‘I felt as if I failed my baby at the very first hurdle – I couldn’t even bring him into the world right’

In the early days of her pregnancy, Rosemary Mac Cabe wrote a birth plan. It’s safe to say…

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