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Why Bluey is making parents everywhere cry


By Amanda Cassidy
30th Jul 2023
Why Bluey is making parents everywhere cry

Writers of the popular Australian cartoon dog family have tackled the sensitive subject of infertility and pregnancy loss in a beautifully subtle way

Over the years, some children’s TV shows have made us cry, usually from boredom. But Bluey is in a whole new league with The Guardian even daring to call it ‘arguably the best television series in the world’.

So why all the fuss? How loving can a blue heeler pup reduce exhausted parents to tears? Bluey is a tender examination of family life seen through the eyes of six-year-old Bluey and her younger sister Bingo. Along with her dad Bandit and mum Chilli, life in their world is joyful, imaginative and with plenty of room for exploring emotional vulnerability.

Representation

But it’s the often subtle, over-the-kids-heads moments that really get you in the gut. Take the episode in Season Three called Onsie in which Chilli’s sister Brandy comes to visit for the first time in four years. Ostensibly it deals with little Bingo turning feral as she takes wearing her cheetah onsie Brandy brought her a little too literally.

But Bluey is jealous of the cheetah costume that doesn’t quite fit her and she has to wear a zebra one instead. A fun game of chase ensures but Aunt Brandy seems a little uncomfortable – there are moments where she wrestles with the children and when they run from her laughing, she holds out her arms longingly, as if full of regret.

Eventually Bluey asks her mum Chilli why her aunt is so sad. She wonders why she’s only come to see them once before. The mother tells Bluey that similar to her desire for the cheetah costume, aunt Brandy had badly wished for something that no one could make fit, tackling the issue of infertility carefully and beautifully.

Subtle

In one of the final scenes, the two sisters lie on their backs in the grass and take hands and the moment is devastating in its simplicity.

In another episode in Season Two called “The Show,” it’s Mother’s Day. Bluey and her younger sister, Bingo bring their mother breakfast in bed. When Bingo trips and drops the tray she cries. But her mother explains the importance of having a cry but then picking yourself up and dusting yourself off so you can carry on.

“The show must go on,” Chilli says.

Later in this episode, the children put on a Mother’s Day show performing parts of how their parents met. Stuffing a balloon under Bingo’s shirt to pretend she’s pregnant with Bluey, the balloon accidentally pops.

The pups’ dad, Bandit, immediately reaches out to grab Chilli’s hand and comfort her, as both shift from looks of happiness to heartbreak. You can picture the mother crying and then having to pick herself up and get on with the show just like she’s taught her daughter. The devastating moments of motherhood that are rarely portrayed with such sensitivity.

It’s a fleeting mood shift that children watching would never notice, but for the parents watching it’s incredibly poignant.

Touching

The creator and writer of Bluey, Joe Brumm later confirmed that the episode was referring to miscarriage. Having big ticket issues like this represented in a show for children and families is incredibly important. We all know parents are the ones watching too.

The beauty here is in making parents feel seen, especially when they are struggling. In the midst of all that lovely colourful innocence, they feel represented.