Whether it’s your first time hosting Christmas or you’re a seasoned pro, keeping stress to a minimum is the secret to putting together a successful festive gathering.
If this is your first time hosting people for Christmas, it’s important not to put yourself under too much pressure. It doesn’t have to be perfect and it probably won’t be so embrace the season and save your pennies from panic-buying that bag of fresh cranberries with our guide to making the festive season enjoyable on a shoestring.
In her cookbook, Nothing Fancy, US cook Alison Roman makes the argument that having people over doesn’t mean you have to suddenly turn your home into a Michelin-starred restaurant. And while she’s mainly referring to creating laid-back dishes, we’re firm believers that this philosophy should extend to your whole evening.
Your guests/housemates/siblings aren’t expecting you to serve up your favourite restaurant’s level of Christmas dinner, including carrot reductions and flavoured foam and they probably won’t feel at ease with an overly formal table setting either. Keep the vibe relaxed and it’ll make for a celebration that everyone will enjoy – including you.
Here are some tips to make everything look great, without spending a fortune.
Nothing has to match…
… and it will probably look better if it doesn’t. Our ultimate dinner party table has an eclectic mix of glasses, cutlery and dinnerware, because a) it looks so much more layered and interesting, and b) who has ten plates that look the same, anyways?
If you’re short on something such as bowls or glasses, check out your local charity shop for a cheap place to pick up some really good-quality items that will add to the mix-and-match vibe. Also if you haven’t heard, chintz is back, so there’s no need to shy away from delicate floral patterns.
Get guests to bring what you’re missing
If you don’t have a certain item like a salad bowl or a coffee pot big enough to serve everyone, there’s no need to rush out to the shops – simply ask someone who does to bring theirs. If they forget to bring it home, then, it’s just a great excuse for them to call around again to pick it up.
Nature is the ultimate free decoration
There’s no need to go out and buy flowers to decorate your table. No matter what the season, there’s always something outside you can adorn your table with. While spring and summer will provide plentiful wild blooms, in autumn and winter you can go for berry-adorned twigs, evergreen foliage and dried seed heads.
Either placed in vases or simply laid on the table, whatever you pick will instantly make your table feel seasonal and welcoming.
Keep it simple
Drinks can be an expensive aspect of having people over, but you don’t have to spend a fortune trying to please everyone. Ask guests to bring their favourite tipple, so there’s no guesswork involved.
For non-alcoholic options, a clear jug and some fruit slices or mint sprigs are all it takes to jazz up water, whether it’s straight from the tap or own-brand sparkling.
Candles make all the difference
It doesn’t matter if your chairs are a bit scuffed or you forgot the napkins, as long as you have candles on the table, your gathering will have a relaxed, cosy atmosphere.
They don’t need to be fancy, either. Plain white dinner candles or tealights are perfect. Simply stick them in an empty bottle or set them on a saucer and let their flickering glow take centre stage.
Feature image via @rebeccaudallhome.