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first trimester

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8 things no one told me about the first trimester

No matter how many pals or sisters who have gone through it before you, nothing can really prepare…

By Lauren Heskin

motherhood myths: Rosemary MacCabe's baby at 1
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Rosemary MacCabe: An unfiltered list of all the things I got wrong about motherhood

It turns out that having a baby is a lot like life: you never know how you’ll react…

By Rosemary MacCabe

Rosemary MacCabe: her baby's first illness
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Rosemary MacCabe: ‘I’m not sure why we don’t bring him to A&E then and there’

Rosemary MacCabe’s baby boy has a usually sunny disposition, which makes it all the more worrying when he…

By Rosemary MacCabe

Hannah-Louise and son Conn on the hunt for coffee
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‘Returning to work after maternity leave, this is one of the daily habits I’ll miss the most’

In the days that followed the arrival of her baby boy, Hannah-Louise dreamed of coffee. Whether it was…

By Hannah-Louise Dunne

Rosemary Mac Cabe: parenting comparisons
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Rosemary MacCabe: ‘I wince as bodies come in contact with hers, but she doesn’t react’

A Dermot Kennedy concert in Indiana throws Rosemary MacCabe into the throes of mothering comparison as a woman…

By Rosemary MacCabe

Rosemary Mac Cabe and her baby
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‘Being able to breastfeed felt like a compensation for his C-section delivery’

Rosemary’s breastfeeding ‘journey’ starts off well and feels, in a way, like a compensation for having a C-section…

By Rosemary MacCabe

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Rosemary MacCabe: ‘Death is not something I have ever feared. Now I long for immortality’

Rosemary MacCabe never feared death, at least for its own sake. But it’s only since becoming a mother…

By Rosemary MacCabe

Air travel with baby: Rosemary MacCabe and her baby on a flight
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Rosemary MacCabe: A long-haul flight home to Ireland with a 7-month-old

Rosemary MacCabe has always been a fan of air travel. The brown noise, mini pretzels, hours to read…

By Rosemary MacCabe

Newborn
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‘My hair remains unwashed, stranded forever in a lopsided mum bun’

It’s sleepless in suburbia for Hannah Louise and her husband as they try to adapt to their newborn.…

By Hannah-Louise Dunne

Rosemary Mac Cabe: failure as a parent is a new type of failure
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Failing as a parent is a new kind of failure

Failing as a parent is a new kind of failure. In the first 6 months of a new…

By Rosemary MacCabe

Rosemary MacCabe and the fourth trimester
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Fourth trimester truths: no swaddling, no sleeping, constipation (mine) and abject terror

'There is something bizarre about cutting a woman open, handing her a baby…and sending her home,' thinks Rosemary…

By Rosemary MacCabe

Rosemary Mac Cabe and her baby: Her birth plan did not go to plan
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Rosemary Mac Cabe: ‘I felt as if I failed my baby at the very first hurdle – I couldn’t even bring him into the world right’

In the early days of her pregnancy, Rosemary Mac Cabe wrote a birth plan. It’s safe to say…

By Rosemary MacCabe